I am generally romantic and imaginative.

I am generally pragmatic and sober.

Usually I go to the confrontation.

I usually avoid confrontations.

I am mostly diplomatic, charming and ambitious.

I am usually direct, formal and idealistic.

I'm usually focused and intense.

Usually I am spontaneous and cheerful.

I am a welcoming person and like to make new friends.

I'm very on my own and don't deal with others much.

It's hard to relax and stop worrying about possible problems.

It's hard to get on my mind about possible problems

I have a 'street fighter' mentality.

I am a high-quality idealist.

I would like to show people how much I care about them.

I like to keep a certain distance from people.

When a new challenge arises, I usually wonder if it will be of any use to me.

When a new challenge arises, I usually wonder if I will like it.

I tend to focus too much on myself.

I tend to focus too much on others.

Others count on my insight and knowledge.

Others count on my strength and decisiveness.

I come across to others as too insecure about myself.

I come across to others as too sure of myself.

I am more relationship-oriented than goal-oriented.

I'm more goal-oriented than relationship-oriented.

I'm not very well able to stand up for myself.

I say what I have on my heart – I say things that others dream of daring to say.

I find it difficult to stop looking at all the alternatives and making a final decision.

I find it difficult to let things run their course and be flexible.

I tend to be restrained and hesitant.

I tend to be free-posed and dominant.

My reluctance to get involved in something has put me in trouble with others.

My urge to make people dependent on me has put me in trouble with them.

Usually I'm able to put my feelings aside and get the job done.

Usually I have to 'work through' my feelings first before I am able to do anything.

In general, I am methodical and cautious.

In general, I am adventurous and I take risks.

Usually I am supportive and generous and I seek deep contact with others.

Usually I am serious and reserved and I like to discuss.

Often I think I should be the 'rock in the surf'.

I often think I have to perform perfectly.

I am particularly interested in asking difficult questions and maintaining my independence.

I am particularly interested in maintaining my stability and tranquillity.

I'm a bit too cynical and sceptical.

I'm a bit too 'soft' and sentimental.

I often think I'm missing something better.

I am often afraid that if I don't pay attention, someone will abuse me.

My habit of keeping myself at a distance irritates others.

My habit of telling others what to do irritates them.

I can usually get rid of my problems.

Usually when I have problems, I treat myself to something fun.

I count on my friends and they know they can count on me too.

I don't count on others; I do everything myself.

I am usually distant and absent.

I'm usually moody and turned into myself.

I like to challenge people and shake them up.

I love to comfort and calm people.

In general, I am extroverted and social.

In general, I am sincere and self-disciplined.

I usually feel shy to show my qualities.

I usually like to show others what I'm good at.

Pursuing my personal interests is more important to me than comfort and security.

Comfort and security are more important to me than pursuing my personal interests.

In conflicts with others, I tend to withdraw.

I rarely avoid conflicts with others.

I give in too quickly and let others mess with me.

I am too inadmissive and demanding towards others.

I am appreciated for my eternal optimism and great sense of humour.

I am appreciated for my quiet strength and exceptional generosity.

I would like to make a good impression on others.

I don't think it's so important to make a good impression on others.

I am proud of my perseverance and common sense.

I am proud of my originality and ingenuity.

In essence, I am easy-going and accommodating.

Essentially, I am driven and assertive.

I worked hard to be accepted and liked.

Being accepted and liked is not a high priority for me.

In response to pressure from others, I withdraw further and further.

In response to pressure from others, I become more aggressive.

People are interested in me because I am social, entertaining and interested in them.

People are interested in me because I am quiet, unusual and profound.

Duty and responsibility are important values for me.

Harmony and acceptance are important values for me.

I try to motivate people by making great plans and making grand promises.

I try to motivate people by pointing out the consequences of not following my advice.

I rarely show my emotions.

I often show my emotions.

Details are not one of my strongest points.

I am very good at details.

More than once I think about how different I actually am from my friends.

More than once I think about how much I actually have in common with my friends.

When situations become too intense, I tend to stay in the background.

When situations become too intense, I tend to be in the middle of them.

I always stand behind my friends, even if they have been wrong.

I do not compromise on what is right, not even for the sake of friendship.

I am a good supporter.

I am a highly motivated 'go-getter' (set goals and achieve them).

When I have worries, I tend to keep talking about my problems.

When I have worries, I can usually distract myself well with other things.

In general, I have strong beliefs and a sense of how things should be.

In general, I have serious doubts and questions about how things seem to be.

I create problems with others by being pessimistic and complaining.

I create problems with others by being bossy and controlling.

Usually I go on my feeling and let everything 'come as it comes'

Usually I don't go to my feeling out of fear that it will cause even more problems.

It is of course for me to be the centre of attention.

It feels strange to me to be the centre of attention.

I am cautious and try to be ahead of unforeseen problems.

I am spontaneous and prefer to improvise when problems arise.

I can get very excited when people don't show enough appreciation for what I've done for them.

I can get very excited when people don't listen to what I say.

It is important for me to be independent and to be able to rely on myself.

I think it is important to be appreciated and admired.

In discussions with friends, I tend to impose my opinion on them.

In discussions with friends, I tend to keep my opinion to myself so as not to put angry blood.

I am often possessive towards those I love; I struggle to let them be themselves.

I have often 'tried out' those I love to see if they are really there for me.

One of my strongest points is organising and getting things done.

One of my strongest points is finding new ideas and making others enthusiastic about them.

I am mostly driven and very hard on myself.

I'm usually too emotional and rather undisciplined.

I try to keep my life fast, intense and exciting.

I try to keep my life regular, stable and calm.

Although I have successes, I tend to doubt my own ability.

Although I have experienced setbacks, I have a lot of confidence in my own ability.

I tend to roote in my feelings and hold them for a long time.

I tend to minimise my feelings and not pay too much attention to them.

I give many people attention and care.

I give many people direction and motivation.

I am somewhat serious and strict to myself.

I am somewhat easy and forgiving to myself.

I am confident and driven to excel.

I am modest and satisfied if I can do everything at my own pace.

I am proud of my clarity and objectivity.

I am proud of my confidence and dedication.

I take a lot of time to look into myself; understanding my feelings is very important to me.

I don't dwell on my feelings for long; it's important for me to get things done.

In general, I see myself as a sunny, casual person.

In general, I see myself as a serious, worthy person.

I have an agile mind and unbridled energy.

I have a caring heart and deep dedication.

I strive for activities that have substantial potential for reward and personal recognition.

I am willing to give up reward and personal recognition if I can do work that really interests me.

Meeting social obligations is rarely at the top of my agenda.

I usually take my social obligations very seriously.

In most situations, I prefer to take the lead.

In most situations, I prefer someone else taking the lead.

Over the years, my values and lifestyle have changed several times.

Over the years, my values and lifestyle have remained almost constant.

Characteristic of me is that I don't have much self-discipline.

Characteristic of me is that I am not very empathetic.

I often feel emotionally too vulnerable to be with other people.

I often feel that my sacrifices are not appreciated.

I tend to think the worst of everything.

I tend to think that everything will end up on its feet.

People trust me because I am confident and can protect them.

People trust me because I'm honest and do what's best.

Often I am so busy with my own things that I become isolated from others.

I am often so busy with others that I neglect my own business.

When I meet a stranger, I am usually balanced and restrained.

When I meet a stranger, I am usually cosy and entertaining.

In general, I tend to pessimism.

In general, I tend to be optimistic.

I prefer to spend time in my own little world.

I prefer to let the world know I'm here.

I am often overrun by nervousness, uncertainty and doubt.

I am often overcome by anger, perfection and impatience.

I realise that I am often too personal and too intimate.

I realise that I am often too cool and distant.

I missed opportunities because I didn't dare to take them.

I missed opportunities because I often wanted too much.

It generally takes me a long time to take action.

I usually take action quickly.

I usually have trouble making decisions.

I rarely have trouble making decisions.

I tend to be too aggressive with others.

I tend not to stand up for myself enough.

Normally I'm in an even mood.

Normally I am subject to strong mood fluctuations.

When I'm not sure what to do, I often ask others for advice.

When I'm not sure what to do, I try different things to see what works best for me.

I am often worried that I will be excluded from other people's activities.

I am often worried that other people's activities will keep me from what to do.

Typical for me is to, when I get angry, 'attack' people.

Typical for me is to distance myself when I get angry.

I'm having trouble falling asleep.

I fall asleep easily.

I have often tried to figure out how to get closer to others.

I have often tried to find out what others want from me.

I am usually measured, on the man and deliberate.

I am usually quickly excited, a quick talker and witty.

I have often kept my opinion to myself when I saw others make a mistake.

I often help other people realise their mistakes.

For most of my life I have been a stormy person, with plenty of intense feelings.

For most of my life I am steadfold and calm, in which 'still waters have deep grounds'.

If I don't like people, I usually try to stay friendly, regardless of my feelings.

If I don't like people, I usually let them know in one way or another.

Many of my problems with others are caused by my light-fedness and I take everything too personally.

Many of my problems with others are caused by my lack of interest in social behaviour.

My way is to jump in and save people.

My way is to show people how they can save themselves.

In general, I enjoy letting myself go completely, to the extreme.

In general, I don't like to lose control of myself.

I'm constantly trying to do everything better than others.

I am constantly working to make others happy.

My thoughts are generally speculative, generated by my imagination and curiosity.

My thoughts are generally practical – easy to keep things going.

One of my strongest points is my ability to lead situations.

One of my strongest points is my ability to describe inner feelings.

I try to do things the way they should, even if it makes people uncomfortable.

I don't like being pressured, so I don't do that with others either.

I am often proud of how important I am in other people's lives.

I am often proud of my enthusiasm and openness to new experiences.

I feel that I make a good impression on others, sometimes even admirable.

I feel like I'm unusual to others, sometimes even weird.

I usually do what I have to do.

I usually do what I want to do.

In general, I like stressful, even difficult situations.

In general, I hate stressful, even difficult situations.

I am proud of my ability to be flexible; what is longed for or important often changes.

I am proud of my ability to take a position; I hold on to what I believe.

My style tends towards moderateness and sobriety.

My style tends towards grandeur and exaggeration.

My own health and well-being have had to suffer from my strong desire to help others.

My relationships with others have had to suffer from my strong desire to take care of myself first.

In general, I am too open and naive.

In general, I am too cautious and cautious.

I sometimes scared people off by being too aggressive.

I have sometimes deterred people by being too strict.

Service others is a high priority for me.

Finding alternative ways to see and do things differently is a high priority for me.

Characteristic for me is my even character.

Characteristic of me are my strongly changing moods.

Situations that bring out deep, strong emotions appeal to me.

Situations that calm me down and put me at ease appeal to me.

I am less interested in practical results than in pursuing what I find interesting.

I am practical and expect concrete results in my work.

I have a deep desire to belong somewhere.

I have a deep desire to feel balanced.

In the past, I've probably demanded too much intimacy in my friendships.

In the past, I've probably kept too much distance in my friendships.

I tend to keep thinking about things from the past.

I tend to constantly anticipate what I'm going to do.

I tend to see people as intrusive and demanding.

I tend to see people as disorganised and irresponsible.

In general, I don't have much confidence in myself.

In general, I only trust myself.

I was probably too passive and not involved.

I've probably been too controlling and manipulative.

I have regularly stopped my actions due to lack of self-confidence.

I rarely let my doubts get in the way.

When I was allowed to choose between something familiar and something new, I often chose the new.

In general, I choose things I know I like.

I generally have a lot of physical contact to convince others what I feel for them.

I generally don't feel that love depends on physical contact.

When I have to confront someone with something, I am often too blunt and direct.

When I have to confront someone with something, I often don't get to the heart of what it's all about.

I am attracted to topics that others are likely to find disturbing or even frightening.

I prefer not to waste my time on disturbing, frightening things.

I get into trouble with others because I am too penetrating and meddling.

I get into trouble with others because I am too evasive and not communicative.

I am concerned that I do not have the means to do my responsibilities.

I'm worried about the fact that I don't have the discipline to focus on what really satisfies me.

Overall, I am a very intuitive, individualistic person.

Overall, I am a very organised, responsible person.

Overcoming inertianess is one of my biggest problems.

Not being able to slow it doner is one of my biggest problems.

When I am uncertain, I react arrogantly and contemptively.

When I am insecure, I respond defensively and arguing.

I am generally open-minded and willing to try new things.

I am generally revealing and willing to share my feelings with others.

To others I present myself harder than I really am.

Towards others, I pretend to be more caring than I really am.

I usually follow my conscience and reason.

I usually follow my feelings and impulses.

Serious advarsity makes me hard and resolute.

Serious adversity discourages me and makes me disgusting.

I usually make sure I have some kind of 'safety net' to fall back on.

I usually choose to go to the extreme and depend on as little as possible.

I have to be strong for others, so I don't have time to dwell on my own feelings and fears.

I struggle to deal with my own feelings, so I find it difficult to be strong for others.

I have often wondered why people focus on the negative, when there is so much beauty in life.

I have often wondered why people are so happy when there are so many problems in life.

I do my utmost not to come across as selfish.

I do my best not to come across as boring.

I avoid intimacy when I feel that I am being overwhelmed by other people's needs and demands.

I avoid intimacy when I feel like I can't meet other people's expectations.